On the last two Tuesdays, I've been sharing some of my thoughts and wonderings about the afterlife. More recently, I've been thinking about what leads up to "the end."
Sudden death is tragic for us humans. So much we could have done. So much we could have said. Too bad we are not prepared.
Most people are on road to death for months or years. A few years ago, a friend told me at his wife's funeral that she told him before she passed that she didn't think dying would be so difficult. She had lung cancer and the doctors had given them no hope.
I lost another classmate last week. I'm told he was in hospice care for several weeks. I have another funeral to attend.
My experience is that death does not come quickly. Sudden death is actually rare for those I've known.
Who knows when death begins? When you look back, you might be able to pinpoint a date or event. In real time, we never know. Our need for positive outcomes won't allow us to imagine the worst. Some would say, death begins at birth.
I wonder when the dying realize that it is happening. What thoughts they have; if they have as many regrets as those they are leaving.
Live your life with a smile. 😊 The best is yet to come!